Southern Rememberance
I’ve posted many times about my wonderful Grandpa – Frank Dicus. How influential he has been in my life. How his positive outlook and zest for and love of life have always been an inspiration. When I think of my Grandpa, I always see him with a smile or laughing his infectious laugh as he tells one of his wild tales about his incredible life.
Grandpa turned 94 this year on January 24, 2010. He died yesterday on August 20th. The world will never be the same. It is, in fact, hard for me to imagine a world without him in it. I feel the same about the world without my father, (Grandpa’s oldest son) who we lost 18 years ago. Some people are just larger than life and their loss just really leaves a void. I’ve learned, in the case of my father, that eventually, we can fill the void with the wonderful memories and lessons learned from those who have had so much influence in our lives.
I take comfort in knowing that, in fact, time does heal and soften the pain of losing those we love, especially when we have the comfort of knowing of their salvation through Jesus Christ.
Sunrise
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you: not as the world gives, give I to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. John 14:27
From Grandpa, I learned to live my life fully and not in fear, to embrace each day, to work hard and well. From Grandpa, I learned not to be pretentious, just be who you are. I’ve learned to embrace tough times and learn from them and become stronger. I’ve learned to be on time.
It is a wonderful thing to be so proud of the family you come from (on both sides!). Today, I feel like I am one of the most blessed people on earth because of the people that I have had and continue to have in my life.
Thank you God!
Sunset
Rest in peace Grandpa! We love you very much and will miss you dearly.
Christi
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August 21st, 2010 at 5:58 pm
What a wonderful tribute to your grandfather! Because we believe in Jesus Christ-we will see our loved ones again! God Bless!
August 21st, 2010 at 10:00 pm
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. But knowing that we will be reunited one day gives hope. Thank you for sharing such a sweet tribute.
August 22nd, 2010 at 9:19 am
I am sorry for your loss. Your grandpa is smiling down from heaven on you right now. Your tribute to him makes him very proud. He knows how much you love and miss him. May the peace of the Lord sustain you.
August 22nd, 2010 at 10:32 am
what a great tribute to an amazing man.
August 22nd, 2010 at 11:28 am
You are blessed by the unforgettable moments spent with your grandfather.The dead are never dead until they are forgotten ,may he lives on through his family’s love.
My thoughts are with you and all of those who loved him.
Blessings,
Virginia
August 22nd, 2010 at 1:47 pm
What a wonderful legacy your grandfather left you. I know you are missing him now but how great to know one day you will be reunited. This is a great hope and you have been greatly blessed.
Blessings,
Charlotte
August 23rd, 2010 at 9:07 am
What a precious grandpa you had. He is surely smiling down on you and awaiting your arrival to hang out with him for eternity.
August 23rd, 2010 at 10:06 am
Such a sweet post in regards to your grandfather.
I hope you find comfort and peace in your memories of him.
August 23rd, 2010 at 11:42 am
Grandfathers are special people and the greatest gift he gave to you was the wonderful memories you shared together and that with all the lessons he taught you will keep his legacy alive. So sorry for your loss but what a wonderful grandfather you were blessed to have as apart of your life.
August 24th, 2010 at 5:21 pm
So sorry for your loss…your grandfather sounds like a wonderful man…a true gift from God….Thank you for this lovely post honoring him.